What defines a man? What defines his strength? Is it his achievements? Leadership skills? Things that he does that make people go "ohh" and "ahhh"..what is the quintessential state of being a man?
Several questions and thoughts that i have pondered over the last few months. It is something which i had gone through for quite awhile but i had never seriously gave much thought into..*maybe this had lead to the lack of posts on my blogs..haha*
Looking hard at myself and going through all that is within me...i would say i have a lot of work to do. I AM WEAK.
i am not saying this in a way that is negative or putting myself down. For me, i think the first step in being a man is to identify his weaknesses. I have many weaknesses and will never be perfect until i hit the grave and see God face to face. But i will not give up in running after God, changing myself to be more and more like Christ. It hurts, it is tough. To go against the flow of people's expectations, stereotypes, comments, my own fears and selfish desires . Sweat, blood and tears flow freely in the process. I fall and stumble time and again, but i have to pick myself up and continue running. Why? Because this is who i am..this is the process that defines me.
What defines a man? God does. He defines me and i am created in his image. Father, let me run after you more and more. Amen.
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